Remember this and keep it to your heart

Love has its own time, its own seasons and its own reason for coming and going.

You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying.

You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.

But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do...

Love always has been and always will be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.

IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN!

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Let It Go

" Let It Go "

To "let go" does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off; it's
the realization I can't control another,

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To "let go" is to enable, but allow
learning from natural consequences.

To "let go" is not to try to change or
blame another, it's to make the most of myself.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow
another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle
arranging all the outcomes but to allow
others to affect their destinies.

To "let go" is not to be protective, it's
to permit another to face reality.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold, or argue,
but instead to search out my own
shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate
anybody but to try to become what I dream
I can be.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but
to grow and live for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less, and love more.

- Author Unknown

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On Love

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.

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Being A Friend

Being A Friend

Author Unknown
There is a difference between being an acquaintance and being a friend.

First, an acquaintance is someone whose name you know, who you see every now and then, who you probably have something in common with and who you feel comfortable around.

It's a person that you can invite to your home and share things with.

But they are people who you wouldn't share your life with, whose actions sometimes you don't understand because you don't know enough about them..

On the other hand, a friend is someone you love. Not that you are "in love" with them, but you care about them and you think about them when they are not there. The people you are reminded of when you see something they might like, and you know this because you know them so well. They are the people whose pictures you have and whose faces are in your head regardless.

They are the people you see in your mind when you hear a song on the radio because they made you go up to the person they like and ask them to dance with them, or maybe you danced with them, maybe they stepped on your toes, or just put their head on your shoulder.

They are the people you feel safe around because you know they care about you. They call just to see how you are doing, because a friend doesn't need an excuse. They tell you the truth, the first time, and you do the same. You know that if you have a problem, they are there to listen.

They are the people who won't laugh at you or hurt you, and if they do hurt you they try hard to make it up to you.

They are the people you love, regardless of whether you realize it.

They are the people you cried with when you got rejected from colleges and during the last song at prom and at graduation.

They are the people that when you hug them, you don't think about how long to hug and who's going to be the first one to let go.

Maybe they are the people that hold the rings at your wedding, or maybe they are the people that give you away at your wedding, or maybe they are the people you marry.

They are certainly the people that cry at your wedding because they are happy or because they are proud.

They are the people who stop you from making mistakes and help you when you do.

They are are the people whose hand you can hold, or you can hug or give them a kiss and not have it be awkward because they understand the things you do and they love you for them. They stick with you and stand by you. They hold your hand. They watch you live and you watch them live and you learn from them. Your life is not the same without them.

These are your friends.

How many do you have?

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Just a Tip for women

Treat your men like 9 year old boys. Let them go out and play with their toys. 

Don't worry because

at the end of the day they will come home to you. 

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